The idea of a gay or lesbian civil wedding is really something I think is no longer a legal issue. What in the hell do people have to do all day long wondering if someone is marrying someone of the same sex? Is there not other pressing and important problems in the world. And to let you know how really important this is, how many folks are really going to answer this question in a gay chat room? Just about no one. Why? Because these are the same in the closet folks who really do not want rights for their lifestyle, they are just living the life and hope they do not get discovered doing it. Most are right where they want to be: in the closet.